Executive Club Of St James

I was a woman in my early thirties and joined with a similar friend. We attended 6 to 8. social events and found very few men. We went to 2 dinners and the men had to move places between each courses. The organiser told me I would be looking at meeting a man of 43/45.Lots of women but I would say my friend and I were some of the more attractive women. people were friendly. Some very i\ntelligent and successful too. Once we attended an event in a pub and a very nice man an architect gave us a lift to our nearest tube home. This happened a couple of other times. A couple of women held partiies and I was invited. I became friends with a really great younger guy but we decided just to stay friends. However the arrogance of SOME of the male members was really off-​putting and the problem was you never knew when it was going to happen most of the people there had something to be proud of but do you need tell someone when you first meet them? Surely success is in the doing not the saying? it really was quite nauseating and made you feel just like walking away. The biggest problem was that when you complained you got nowhere. The organiser just was not into complaints and so APPEARED just as arrogant as some of his members. Example I imet a guy called Gordon at one of the social events. We got chatting and i admit I was relaxed with him. We arranged toleave the Club together on this Sunday afternoon I wanted to go for a quiet coffee somewhere but he insisted as we went down the road that we went back to his place. I was not really keen but he we seemed to get on. The arrogance started once at his place when he started on about his expensive curtains. A young woman looking for a date and possibly romance was suddenly brought down to earth. I think we sort of snogged on the sofabut it was not very good and I ended up asleep in his bed. I woke up to his snoring and the flashing of a neon advertising sign in the floor below. We had exchanged absolutely no personal info. I did not know his surmane his interests (himself?) his past life or future hopes, if he had any sense of humour at all, Amazingly, this guy then told me he wanted to see me again and said he would be coming to visit me (some 60 miles) away. Unsurprisingly I did not take up his offer.