Betty and Edie and Alan and Carmine and Kevin and Hildy and Karen and Barb all deserve to be called saints. My dad poses such challenging questions for us, his kids: to what point does he get to run the show if he isn’t doing something that is(ahem) «for his own good.» Our answers have come from Presby staff. No, Pa doesn’t always wear his hearing aid, but he can hear well enough when he wants to. His shoes may look a bit ratty, but we are not going to force him to het new ones. Other families may do things differently, but our family style works well at Presby and we are glad Pa chose to live there.