eHarmony.com

After 1000 questions and matches, my 90% match later took hostages. Stop emailing me I’ve asked every year for 3 years. Thanks.

e-​harmony is for people looking for love. The Men and women that use e-​harmony. All got tired of people breaking thier hearts. Love is really tough, but we can all find love anywhere. Including e-​harmony, so sign up and make a profile. Say what you want and don’t forget to add those fabulous pictures of yourself.
Sincerely VD

i did the free weekend thing a year and half ago and i got matched up w/​a guy who ended up spitting on my car about a month into us dating because i didn’t want to see him anymore.
nuff said.

eHarmony entices with deftness and sincerity promising I’ll gradually fall madly, deeply, passionately into friendship, a friendship ever teetering on the edge of love. With hope building, I sign up and the matching mechanics begin to unwind — the results start to seem shapeless. No matches? Maybe «angry, with lots of feelings of disappointment» was the wrong answer to characterize the end of most of my romantic relationships.

I should have read these Unilocal reviews before I joined Eharmony because I could have saved some gas money.
I really do like Eharmony’s «PLAN» but the execution, as noted by others, seems lacking.
My closest spiritual match so far seems to be in Alaska. There has to be someone closer!
If you consider you’re looking in a pile of hundreds of millions of eligible men, I guess you have to be patient but out of those hundreds of millions, there has to be more than one that:
Isn’t a porn junky
Is humbly religious
Has a spirit of volunteerism at least close to mine
Is responsible and caring
Isn’t trying to «data-​mine»
Won’t suck your nose off (per the other Unilocal’er’s post).
I haven’t «met» anyone in person yet but if I do before my 3 months is up, I hope it to be someone who can carry their end of a conversation because while I can carry both, I prefer not to.
I recommend Eharmony to anyone who prefers screening dates to actually meeting them because it seems there is a lot to screen through.

Practicies discrimination. does not allow same sex dating… what next? No inter racial dating?
Give you a buck that this guy is caught shortly with his pants down with some male hooker just like all those other «religious» fanatics!

If you’re surrounded all your life by honest people you don’t realize how many dishonest people are out there, especially with the internet as the new tool for abusive men to target women. Like the poster below I think eharmony allows abusive men to target vulnerable, trusting women and use their supposed Chrisitianity as a prop to gain a woman’s trust. The format of the process on eharmony allows the abuser to know the right words to say and way to act by finding out in advance the person’s «must haves» and «can’t stands». A con man is able to use this information to mirror a woman’s values and appear to be the perfect match because they have been given a script in advance of what to do to manipulate the woman. I gave it one star only because I couldn’t figure out how to give it 0 stars. Be very careful of men who claim to be Christian and act like the victim or just a sinner who made a mistake. Look at their history and how they handled problems and not their words they say to get you to trust them and get you to sleep with them or give them money. Looking at their history with women will be like looking into a crystal ball into your own future. If you use the internet and eHarmony to find a date then use the internet to research them. Abusive men used to be able to move to another city or state but with the internet their history is available world wide to anyone with a computer and willingness to do research. Google is a woman’s best friend in the world of dating. As a starting point check them out by going to Google and simply typing in their first and last name. Don’t ignore your intuition or their history no matter how sincere they may seem in their words or what they write in their profiles online.

After reading common criticisms of
I came up with a new slogan for them:
: Bringing people together, unless of course those people happen to be gay or atheist

Last year for my birthday, my mom purchased me a 3-​month subscription to eHarmony (are you hinting at something, ma!?) and I thought since she already bought it I might as well make use of it. eHarmony supposedly matches you up with people you’re compatible with based upon questions that in my experience fluctuate considerably with my moods. But, I decided to have a good laugh and I answered the questions with a light heart.
DISCLAIMER: I’m a cynic who doesn’t believe in matrimonial bliss.
Now, if you don’t know, I’m a tall girl (5’10″) and they do ask about that in the beginning, so when I started receiving matches to guys who were 5’2″ I was a little disconcerted (not that I have anything against short guys, but damn a whole 8″ shorter and that’s without my heels!) That was just the beginning…
I met several of my matches in person (because, let’s face it, words on a computer screen really tell you nothing about the kind of chemistry you’re going to have with a person) and I’ve been treated better by some of my Craigslist dates! In fact, I jokingly refer to eHarmony as the CL you have to pay for. eHarmony boasts that it is a «Christian» site (gag) and so the quality of men on here are supposedly better (huh? I don’t see the logic). In fact, I think eHarmony is crawling with a bunch of really smart players who caught on that the good women on eHarmony are far more vulnerable and thus more likely to fall for their game. At any rate, all of my dates asked me to go home with them for some «dessert»…I expect that from CL, but not eHarmony, the site where «you can find the love of your life!» LOL… what a joke!
I gave this dating site a star because a couple of people really close to me have had success. But, keep in mind I’ll give a star to a liquor store/​pizzeria that is infamous for mixing bodily fluids with their pizza sauce…